College days, they say, is boring because most of the students there are now very serious with their studies. But what they don’t know is that college days are way more fun compared to high school days. You might be familiar with several reasons why college days are way cooler compared to high school days. Let me give you some of the reasons why college is not that boring; one, you will be expose to different types of parties. Two, you will be above 18 which means you are now allowed to enter night clubs and bars. Three, you will be exposed to a bigger university with higher number of students, which means that new environment, new friends, new hobbies, and etc. Lastly, you are mature enough to find a girl you want to date. Yes, that is the most interesting part of college life to find a girl that you want to date. But not everyone has the ability, confidence, and guts to do that, especially for those guys who don’t have much experience in dating or talking to a girl. But in reality, there are so many ways to find a girl to date during your college days, all you have to do is to know the techniques and ways to do that. Now, before you approach and ask a girl for a date, there are some rules that you need to follow so things will go smoothly without any hassle. Of course, not all girls that you will approach will say yes to you, you need to use an exact formula before you can win their yeses.
Know What Type of Girl You Want To Date
The very first thing that you need to do is to know what type of girl you want to date. Try to set some standards and qualifications of a girl that you want to date. Do you like girls who smoke, drink, bad image, cheater, and etc, or you want a girl who is serious with her studies, who has ambitions in her life, and so on. Of course, you won’t just date any girl that you meet. You always have that power to choose a girl that you want to date and soon have a relationship with her. Your standards and qualifications will serve as filter to segregate one from the other. But in fact, this is like an innate attitude that we have that dream girl in our mind.
Know Where To Find Them
Next is you need to find where to find the girl that you want. You can go to library, gym, theatre rooms, clubs, house parties, and etc. It’s important that you know where you could find your dream girl to easily find them.
Learn The Technique of Approaching A Girl
After that, the hardest and most challenging part of dating in college is to approach the girl and ask her for a date. There are effective techniques that you can to easily get girl’s attention. But of course, each technique applies to different types of girls as well. So, learn to know the right technique approach so you can get her attention and her yes to go out with you.
Take It Slow
Next thing is you need to take things easy. Do not rush the girl, be patient and learn how to compromise. Most girls don’t like to rushed, just try to enjoy your time together, your conversation, communication, and every moment you have with her.
Aside from those four tips mentioned above for dating in college, there are still other effective methods to approach and ask her for a date. So, be versatile in learning as many dating tips as you want.